Ladies ought to realize
the importance of maintaining virginity life until their wedding night.
While peer pressure will tell you the good of sexual adventures, they
won't let you know the negative impact of early sex. Short term delights
might be a blinding welcome for long time negative consequences.
Virginity is the state of a woman or a man who hasn’t had sex in his or
her life. It's being sexually pure. In girls, the virginal entrance is
normally covered with a thin membrane called hymen, leaving a hole of
about two centimeters in diameter. After the first sex, the virginal
entrance extends to about four centimeters. The initial sex is usually
painful because it involves the destruction of the hymen. In the
process, blood usually comes out.
Long time ago (even today in
some societies) people used to offer sacrifices to their gods or
ancestors. The Jews did slaughter animals to Yahweh. The said animals'
blood acted as a bond or covenant between the gods /God and the people.
Even in the contemporary Christianity people believe that Jesus had to
shed his blood at the cross for our new covenant with God to be renewed.
Blood is therefore a binding entity between two or more parties.
During the first sex, the hymen is broken and blood comes out. In some
communities, this act as a sign of sexual purity and was highly
observed. The blood creates a permanent bond and unites the people
involved emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually. Thus, you
rarely forget the person you had your first sex with. Giving the whole
of you to another person, as does happen in sex, should come after being
certain that whatever has brought you together is very genuine.
Marriage generally serves as a preliminary assurance. Somebody should
not see and use your nudity for selfish reasons and then dump you like a
worthless rag. Furthermore, its important to value your body. It’s the
most important treasure God has given you. In fact your body is the
Lord's dwelling place: His temple. Statistics shows that those who do
their first sex after marriage live peacefully and enjoy their marital
sex life.